Single women dating nyc
I can't believe this is something that is influencing my desire to pursue this opportunity, but I'm concerned that in New York it would be hard for me to meet someone who's looking for a serious relationship.
I want a family and I'm not getting any younger.
I DO have friends who have fallen in love in NYC and they fall about equally into 3 camps. Generally its an AMAZING city to build a tribe of friends and further your career but a terrible place to look for love.
I've been at it for longer than I care to think about and it feels like it takes forever to find a guy who has his act together and is into you. The guys by contrast seem to fit into a few camps (finance bro, startup wannabe mogul, and aimless aspirational) and none of them bother putting in any effort because they know they don't have to.
ETA: I'm probably of average attractiveness, but dress pretty well. Re: the Mc Mansion hell thing - I take your point about being open-minded, but this is one lifestyle factor that is actually quite important to me.
In DC, a lot of the single guys are already living in the suburbs as childless 20-somethings...it's just a different vibe here.
For those who have been successful finding a spouse in the New York dating scene, how did you go about it?
Did you use apps or meet someone the old-fashioned way?
My two friends who live in New York are always talking about how people feel disposable in the dating scene, and so it's easy to hook up but not so easy to find a significant other.