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Sometimes, it makes them uncomfortable and they choose not to engage in sexual intimacy, and that’s their choice.It’s hard, but you have to learn that not everyone will be open enough to hearing your story, but that shouldn’t deter you from being vulnerable and having a normal sex life.Siegel, clinical sexologist and certified sexuality educator at the Modern Institutes for Sex Therapy Training and Sage Institute for Family Development, tells Bustle.“Like with any other ‘reveal,’ there might be a risk that the other person may reject you and leave.” However, he says that it’s a risk that's important to take, and that it may even help you and your partner form a closer connection and lead to better communication and intimacy.I introduced my viral condition with humor or in a passing comment, and my partners responded with empathy.Now, I share openly with potential partners well before we have sex.The vast majority of my partners have been accepting and empathetic — we talk about my story, what having herpes means for my sex life, and I answer any questions they may have, and then, when we are both comfortable, we have sex! I typically tell new partners my status over text message.It’s easier for me, and I feel that it gives them time to think and process without immediately having to face me.

In fact, Laureen HD, 31, has a You Tube channel dedicated to helping people cope with herpes and its stigma.

Many people either don’t have a visible sore, or do not know they have herpes, and then pass it on to their partner(s).

But for some, the stigma around herpes can be worse than any of the actual symptoms.

“My typical disclosure sounds something like this: ‘I have a skin condition that causes flare-ups from time-to-time.

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This skin condition is herpes, and it’s pretty manageable, most of all when I’m on suppressive therapy. ’ From past experiences, I have noticed that what I say is as important as how I say it.

In fact, in a recent Bustle Trends Group survey of 226 women ages 18 to 34, one participant said, “It’s hard to admit to having had an STI, there’s so many gross assumptions about promiscuity and uncleanliness.” As another respondent put it, “Women are seen as less sexual beings in society which keeps us from being able to talk about issues without some form of shaming from others.” Sadly, the more women with herpes feel shamed, the more the cycle of stigmatizing the STI continues, and the harder it may be to tell a sexual partner you have herpes.